I have seen, done and heard a lot of stupid things in my time but the OSCAR definitely goes to this young man.
A lonely man is £16,000 poorer after sending money overseas to two women he fell in love with over the internet, in the hope they would join him in the UK .
I gave up my lunch break to write this simply because I just could not resist – I mean, how can anybody? I was shaking my head in disbelief as I read each line. In this day and age of Identity theft, cyber-crime and all other shenanigans that result in innocent people being fleeced via cyberspace, this donkey was stupid enough to trust something he met on-line simply because he was promised love. [Let’s face it; we all know he was hoping to get some nookie and by this account, he must have been very desperate!!]. I thought we had all wised-up to these types of pranks.
I remember way back at university, when some students used to spend all weekend in the computer rooms chatting day and night. On Monday mornings, they would talk about it and laugh and share funny stories on how they pretended to be some “Hot Swedish blonde” and some far-away sad old men would lust after them. In fact it used to be a competition to see how much attention one would get in chat rooms. I don’t blame them. What else do you expect from students far away from home seeking some weekend kicks?
But this miserable old man takes both gullibility and stupidity to new heights. He is not student and has an elderly mother to look after and still falls for the cheapest trick in the book…
David Hodgkinson’s borrowed money from his elderly mother and re-mortgaged his home in Margate, Kent, but neither woman showed up at the airport.
Now, he gets on-line, exchanges lines of text with someone claiming to be whoever, this mysterious person expresses undying LOVE, Mr Sadness personified falls head over heels, Miss smitten asks for £10,000.00 to cover travel and visa costs and donkey sends the money!!! If it was his own money it would have been bearable. But no, he borrows poor old mummy’s money. Not only that – it happened to him more than once!!!
Mr Hodgkinson, who is a full-time carer for his 86-year-old mother, turned to online dating after he became fed up with being single. He first struck up a relationship with Natalia, from Russia , who he met through a dating website. He sent her more than £10,000 to pay for her travel and a visa so she could be with him. He went to meet her at Heathrow Airport four times, but she never arrived. He then turned to a Christian dating website and met Amada, from Senegal . He sent her £6,000, but was again left waiting in the arrivals lounge of the airport.
Four rimes he went to meet this girl at the airport! Where do we get people like this from? This so-called “Natalia from Russia ”, only God knows if she is in fact female. I bet good money that she is some crook looking for some moo-moo to swindle. On the other hand, I should not be too hard on this guy because he is lonely, has “past it” and not exactly blessed with good looks unlike me. That might explain his repeated failure to hear those deafening alarm bells ringing when in the first instance Natalia was nowhere to be seen at the airport!!!
People like Mr Hodgkinson deserve no sympathy. I urge all Natalias out there to even ask for more money next time. If someone can be that gullible then the Natalias out there are providing a service by trying to educate the Hodgkinsons of this world. His mother is elderly and has been left to pay-off his love-debts. To show how sick this man is, he even has this to say…
“I feel no ill in my heart. I did really love her,” Mr Hodgkinson told the BBC.”
Something tells me that nothing has been learnt here.